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Be predictable. When do seeds of suspicion emerge? When one begins to think, What's up? Why is he doing that? He's never done that before. That is so unlike him. He loses 30 pounds, buys a new wardrobe and comes home late from work.
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Our success lies in:
• How willing we are to deal with the roots of the unwanted behaviors?
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• Simplifying the workout program to fit your lifestyle.
Do you mean I will have to take a good long look at myself? Maybe so. At the end of the day, you are going to have to ask yourself, “Do I deal with it now or do I deal with the consequences later? Because that’s really want it comes down to. Face the truth on your terms today,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], or face the reality on life’s terms down the road in a hospital bed.
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Do we really want to continue to put a bandage on bleeding artery? Or do we get serious and do some mental surgery that takes care of the weight problem once in for all.
“While exercise and eating guidelines are based on good scientific principles, they do not go along with human nature or common sense. Recent history is telling us this; we are better off with encouraging the mediocre people who are willing to include exercise in their daily lives, rather than cramming guidelines down throats that are far beyond the reach of the majority of people. In the end, keeping things simple combinedwith support usually works better.” Greg Ryan
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Do we not want to know, or could it have something to do with the doctor’s and those in the fitness industry not wanting to explain the best approachto us? Maybe they don’t even know the right way themselves? Deep down we want and needtoo know. Why do I say this? Twenty years of managinghealth clubs and dealing with doctor’s tells me, that if they told you this,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], then there may be a chance you would not need them. Sounds crazy doesn’t it. But, true!
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Be predictable. When do seeds of suspicion emerge? When one begins to think, What's up? Why is he doing that? He's never done that before. That is so unlike him. He loses 30 pounds, buys a new wardrobe and comes home late from work.
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DAB for four cross-strait forum to encourage young people to politics
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Zhang Guojun (left two), although the forum organized by the "young people", but not "young people" welcome members and paid attention to the related issues of young people to attend. In Hongkong on 23 September, / young DAB is planned for December this year to January next year, held the four forum,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], invited the mainland, Hong Kong,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], Taiwan and Macao youth delegates to discuss common issues, young people, including city planning, environmental protection and economic development. "Young people" Chairman Zhang Guojun said, hope the forum will encourage young people to conduct policy research.
Hongkong Ta Kung Pao reported, "young people" committee last week regular meeting, discuss related issues for the two sides of the four forum. Zhang Guojun said in an interview yesterday, "young people" the committee agreed to hold the forum,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], the forum form and follow-up matters had a lively discussion.
Zhang Guojun said, hope that the forum members not only "one" in nature,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], but can continue to play the outcome of the forum, "young people become major concerns for the future". "The representatives of the parties in the forum a speech, it is all over the young people concerned matters. 'young people' the future will these matters,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], to continue studying and discussing in the internal, or expression of the social action, or directly reflect to the government."
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the forum at present is still in the embryonic stage, time and place have not been determined, the specific form. Zhang Guojun said,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], although the forum organized by the "young people", but they will follow the practice of foreign, welcome non "Qing Min" members and paid attention to the related issues of young people attending the forum. In addition, "young people" will also contact the local young people think tank,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], scholars, and related organizations in four sides,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], the forum has more interactive.
Zhang Guojun said, because the forum involves a lot of human and material resources, so we are forum to write detailed report, estimated that the fastest next month to a member of the Standing Committee of the DAB in review.
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Joyous, happy and free is the birth rite of each human being, but unless the unconscious brain comes to know that the change is safe, it will never welcome the idea. Therefore, it needs gentle persuasion over time, and gradually it will start to see that “normal” can be a lot more fun that it has been to date.
Even the most talented,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], kind,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], loving parents in the world cannot meet all their child’s needs. Indeed, learning that you cannot always have what you want is an important part of learning to share and to compromise- all qualities that make life a lot smoother if you master them young. If, however, you were not fed or cuddled when you cried, for whatever reason, there is a good chance that you will develop a belief system that your needs will not be met by others. There are many reasons why the parents could not attend to this babies needs- sickness, work, depression,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], too many other children, and so on. This is just one tiny example of a belief system that can be formulated as a baby.
From the ages of 0-4, the human brain is like a sponge,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], literally soaking up absolutely everything that it can from its’ environment. This is a fabulous survival strategy, for at this age, we depend entirely on the adults around us to get our needs met. 0-4 is also the age that you learn trust and learn autonomy,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], that is, that you are a separate being from your parents or carers. If your childhood was one that was characterized by neglect or abuse or anger or sadness or life was fun and you were loved, it is at this age that the brain registers what “normal” is and then spends the rest of your life trying to recreate “normal”.
So,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], if we continue this through the childhood and into adolescence- this youth (let’s make him a boy) is operating from the belief system that his needs will not be met by other people. It is highly possible that he has trust issues and finds it really challenging to let people in. Do you think he will be good at forming and maintaining healthy and loving relationships? Not if he is working from the premise that he is going to be let down by others.
With such an amazing machine functioning on our behalf, how is it that some people can seem to be miserable, unfulfilled and tired most of the time? The major factor is that we have 2,000 thoughts a day that we are conscious of, and yet we have 60,000 thoughts a day. This implies that a vast percentage of what we do moment to moment is unconscious, and therefore we have no control over it.
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The human mind is an amazing piece of equipment. It processes an astounding 400 billion bits of information every second. It is at the same time trying to regulate healing, breathing, moving, thinking, repairing, protection, prevention, temperature, food absorption, hormones, chemical reactions,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], and a whole host of other processes that enable us to stay alive in each moment.
A good example of this is the partners we choose. We say that we are going to do better next time,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], and then go and pick someone who seems to all intents and purposes completely different, and ends up being just the same. To outsiders, the woman who repeatedly chooses angry alcoholics is blind. To her, the next angry alcoholic is irresistible because he is what she is unconsciously looking for- someone who feels “normal” and safe, and therefore reassuring, even if safe is dangerous.
The irony is that his unconscious mind is running the show, and helping him to seek out relationships with people who will not meet his needs. It does this because it is always trying to recreate what it knows to be “normal”. The unconscious mind does not like change, so it keeps looking for the same situation over and over.
Do we need to command the brain to perform the processes that run our lives? We do not. In fact, the human mind is hard wired to survive, and for the most part, the brain carries out its daily tasks without reference to us at all. It informs us when we are cold, hungry, or tired, and we usually respond to signals that it sends us- we put clothes on, eat, sleep,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], or whatever it is that our bodies need from us. If we choose not to listen to our bodies, we get sick, stressed, over-tired, and depressed, amongst other things.
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Your unconscious mind is trying to create “normal” for you at all times,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], and your conscious mind just processes what your unconscious mind chooses. This is why for some people, no matter how many times they repeat affirmations and think positive thoughts, nothing changes. For these people, deeper work is needed. Find a safe way of discovering which belief systems run your life, and work to change them to ones that actually can help you to live the life you want instead.
Do they know what they are doing? Are they conscious of why they choose these people? Absolutely not. Their compass is wired to those circumstances. What is your compass wired to? Are you surrounded by people who validate you, make you happy, put you first and love you no matter what? Or is your story one of being surrounded by people who are angry, who leave you, who are miserable,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], or critical, or victimize you? Look back through your important relationships and try to see if there is a theme. This could be where you need to start your inner work.
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When you are faced with the choice of filing for divorce,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], you need to make sure you choose a divorce lawyer that has enough expertise and experience to make sure you get the best possible settlement. You need someone who knows the law and will turn it around in your favor. This doesn't mean you want to attempt to take everything possible from your spouse but rather assurance that your divorce lawyer will see that you receive a fair and equitable settlement. Of course, if you are able to work out the terms of the divorce with your spouse before your case comes before the court,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], you are one step ahead of the game so to speak.
One of the first things you want to do is conduct some research to find the right divorce lawyer in PA. Where you will conduct your research depends solely on where you live; you don’t want to make your search too broad and general because you will eliminate any potential of finding a divorce lawyer that is within reasonable commuting distance of your home or office. In addition,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], it is unlikely the lawyer will want to travel very far outside of his or her usual jurisdictional locality. If you live in a large city such as Pittsburgh or Philadelphia, there may be some necessity for travel into another courthouse since there may be more than one courthouse within the municipal jurisdiction.
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Choosing the right divorce lawyer can certainly appear to be a great of work, but it is something that is necessary in order for you to feel confident you have the best possible representation. Choosing a lawyer that fails to provide competent legal counsel could cost you a great deal of money in lost assets and future earning capacity (especially if you spent your married life taking care of your spouse and children). You don't want to be nasty and demand everything,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], but you do want to make sure you don't take less than that to which you are entitled.
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Members of society use rage to re-direct the root cause of their depression (which is,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], as we said, self directed anger) and to channel it safely. To ensure that this expressed aggression alleviates their depression - real targets must are selected and real punishments meted out. In this respect, "social rage" differs from the victim's. The former is intended to sublimate aggression and channel it in a socially acceptable manner - the latter to reassert narcissistic self-love as an antidote to an all-devouring sense of helplessness.
Society Phase IV - HELPLESSNESS
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PHASE I
As the consequences of narcissistic rage - both social and personal - grow more unacceptable, depression sets in. The victim internalizes his aggressive impulses. Self directed rage is safer but is the cause of great sadness and even suicidal ideation. The victim's depression is a way of conforming to social norms. It is also instrumental in ridding the victim of the unhealthy residues of narcissistic regression. It is when the victim acknowledges the malignancy of his rage (and its anti-social nature) that he adopts a depressive stance.
Again, the members of society are unable to help the victim to emerge from a self-destructive phase. His depression is enhanced by their apparent helplessness. Their introversion and inefficacy induce in the victim a feeling of nightmarish isolation and alienation. Healing and growth are once again retarded or even inhibited.
The mismatch between the victim's reactive patterns and emotional needs and society's matter-of-fact attitude hinders growth and healing. The victim requires society's help in avoiding a head-on confrontation with a reality he cannot digest. Instead, society serves as a constant and mentally destabilizing reminder of the root of the victim's unbearable agony (the Job syndrome).
The victim's nearest ("Society") - his colleagues, his employees, his clients,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], even his spouse, children,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], and friends - rarely experience the events with the same shattering intensity. They are likely to accept the bad news and move on. Even at their most considerate and empathic, they are likely to lose patience with the victim's state of mind. They tend to ignore the victim, or chastise him, to mock,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], or to deride his feelings or behaviour, to collude to repress the painful memories, or to trivialize them.
Depression - if pathologically protracted and in conjunction with other mental health problems - sometimes leads to suicide. But more often, it allows the victim to process mentally hurtful and potentially harmful material and paves the way to acceptance. Depression is a laboratory of the psyche. Withdrawal from social pressures enables the direct transformation of anger into other emotions,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], some of them otherwise socially unacceptable. The honest encounter between the victim and his own (possible) death often becomes a cathartic and self-empowering inner dynamic. The victim emerges ready to move on.
We react to serious mishaps,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], life altering setbacks, disasters, abuse, and death by going through the phases of grieving. Traumas are the complex outcomes of psychodynamic and biochemical processes. But the particulars of traumas depend heavily on the interaction between the victim and his social milieu.
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This final mismatch between the victim's emotional needs and society's reactions is less damaging to the victim. He is now more resilient, stronger, more flexible, and more willing to forgive and forget. Society's denial is really a denial of the victim. But,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], having ridden himself of more primitive narcissistic defences - the victim can do without society's acceptance, approval, or look. Having endured the purgatory of grieving, he has now re-acquired his self, independent of society's acknowledgement.
The more the members of society come to grips with the magnitude of the loss, or evil, or threat represented by the grief inducing events - the sadder they become. Depression is often little more than suppressed or self-directed anger. The anger, in this case, is belatedly induced by an identified or diffuse source of threat, or of evil, or loss. It is a higher level variant of the "fight or flight" reaction, tampered by the rational understanding that the "source" is often too abstract to tackle directly.
Victim phase II - HELPLESSNESS
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Society phase I - ACCEPTANCE, MOVING ON.
Both the victim and society react with RAGE to their predicaments. In an effort to narcissistically reassert himself, the victim develops a grandiose sense of anger directed at paranoidally selected, unreal, diffuse,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], and abstract targets (=frustration sources). By expressing aggression, the victim re-acquires mastery of the world and of himself.
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Victim phase I - DENIAL
Denial gradually gives way to a sense of all-pervasive and humiliating helplessness, often accompanied by debilitating fatigue and mental disintegration. These are among the classic symptoms of PTSD (Post Traumatic Stress Disorder). These are the bitter results of the internalization and integration of the harsh realization that there is nothing one can do to alter the outcomes of a natural, or man-made, catastrophe. The horror in confronting one's finiteness, meaninglessness,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], negligibility, and powerlessness - is overpowering.
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Victim Phase V - ACCEPTANCE AND MOVING ON
It would seem that while the victim progresses from denial to helplessness, rage, depression and thence to acceptance of the traumatizing events - society demonstrates a diametrically opposed progression. This incompatibility, this mismatch of psychological phases is what leads to the formation and crystallization of trauma.
People around the victim ("society") also emerge from their phase of rage transformed. As they realize the futility of their rage, they feel more and more helpless and devoid of options. They grasp their limitations and the irrelevance of their good intentions. They accept the inevitability of loss and evil and Kafkaesquely agree to live under an ominous cloud of arbitrary judgement, meted out by impersonal powers.
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Society, on the other hand, having exhausted its reactive arsenal - resorts to denial. As memories fade and as the victim recovers and abandons his obsessive-compulsive dwelling on his pain - society feels morally justified to forget and forgive. This mood of historical revisionism, of moral leniency, of effusive forgiveness, of re-interpretation, and of a refusal to remember in detail - leads to a repression and denial of the painful events by society.
Society phase II - DEPRESSION
The magnitude of such unfortunate events is often so overwhelming,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], their nature so alien, and their message so menacing - that denial sets in as a defence mechanism aimed at self preservation. The victim denies that the event occurred, that he or she is being abused, that a loved one passed away.
Thus, when the victim is most in need, terrified by his helplessness and adrift - society is immersed in depression and unable to provide a holding and supporting environment. Growth and healing is again retarded by social interaction. The victim's innate sense of annulment is enhanced by the self-addressed anger (=depression) of those around him.
("He" in this text - to mean "He" or "She").
SUMMARY PHASE V
SUMMARY PHASE IV
In other words, society, by itself being in a state of rage, positively enforces the narcissistic rage reactions of the grieving victim. This, in the long run,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], is counter-productive, inhibits personal growth, and prevents healing. It also erodes the reality test of the victim and encourages self-delusions, paranoidal ideation,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], and ideas of reference.
Victim Phase IV - DEPRESSION
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said another bank,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], China bank industry spread level is low in the whole world, he even said that the Chinese banking sector profit than even the manufacturing industry. The governor has forgotten, Chinese banking licence has a monopoly,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], price is controlled by the state, not the market, 10% of the float is "great reform", the media speculation may cause a shocking commotion. Need to know, Chinese banking industry is in the national credit endorsement, with 8% of the capital to move more than 10 times the social capital for their own profit,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], lend chicken unripe egg, profit surges. What industry can have this ability, have such a privilege?
face all criticism,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], each big bank executives have coincidentally collective "act loving", "poor-mouth", some people say that the banking industry of high profits is mainly due to the expansion of assets,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], but the overall rate of return on assets is not high, "can not be said that profits, can only say that is the case". This seems to be the great truth, that China's banking industry over the years shared the cake up to the scale of victory is the only proper course to take.
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in the global economic slowdown,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], the entity economy hard behind, Chinese banking industry profit is based on the domestic financial markets are underdeveloped, the interest rate is highly regulated, the degree of market is low, the social security system is not perfect, growing on financial repression. People investment channel is narrow, but can only put the money in the bank, 70 yuan deposits in the banking system,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], with negative interest rates for bank >
last year, Chinese banking industry net profit of over 1 yuan, a year-on-year increase of 36.3%, plus the Minsheng Bank a "high profits to feel shy to say, (under the current system) bank does not want to make money is difficult, the society that we be rich and cruel" as a symbol of China, the bank has become the most profitable in the world bank, astronomically high profits and dividends for the global system of eyebrows, also shocked by. Where the listed bank executives rising, millions or even tens of millions of annual salary, more make public uproar.
to attend a meeting,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], a responsible comrades in the listed a series of typical cases of recent, words such as one's resonant voice rings out, earthquake deaf-fat-fed, all in perfect silence,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], but every one of us.
has a policy bank manager said, "one year of bank profit was 1 yuan, to supplement the capital, the rest have dividends, the cost to the government, big head away!" He made a common mistake, profit after deducting the cost of revenue, but in recent years the majority of banks are listed on the stock market downturn, but again, still don't hinder its refinancing way to draw blood from the market, supplying bank capital. In 2008, the stock market dropped 1600 points from 6000 points the way, but a small bank deep development,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], should open one's mouth wide, a refinancing will be 150000000000 yuan for supplementary funding. Every year from investors pocket out thousands of billion yuan, has become the main channel to supplement capital, where is the use of profits to supplement.
"bank for the real economy of the service,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], in the face of the banking industry more than trillion yuan of high profits,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], then compared to the current economic difficulties, deformity and banking profits have 'the national wealth'."
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One day,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], a warrior
me against the world
cut moral hanging head
one day,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], to do evil
and all enemies
to be free
one day,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], a mob
and group,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych].
cut human network
one day,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], make a rash
and wise,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych].
backlight,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych].
one day,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], do personal
and ghosts
learn to live
one day,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], do a tramp
and their company,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych].
break team iron
one day,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], do a madman
and soul singing
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Light sound sleep
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awakens Sleeping memory from bottom pouring undoubtedly
the wind away the messy thoughts
footprints branded with the way the pain
Life pushing on our life
without a moment's restThe music beats
mind
blood flows in the thoughts of the strong
heart full of beautiful sadness
the flowers in the dream
only sadness secretly crying
hastily I have stood on the outside of your world
cannot keep it is can not let go of the past
time dilute the pain concentration
we just each other spectators,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych].
still struggling to clip in the life of the crack inAnd my love in hibernating
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The well cover the Indus stuffed moon, door hidden willow department daily wave, stay empty sigh and old, sad autumn rain Gu Peng Cun Jiang, lights, but to whom silver white as snow.
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Not a bit old feeling
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it's not ever be junctions
no camphor tree,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], no one waiting for
whose heart is still in the black river walk of God
perched on a stone bridge across the mountains,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych].
I can't help worrying,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], is wrong
does not find the acquaintance,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych].
in the lonely street
take a train to far away,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], has ended
the long night
only your heart with me
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The wind,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], blowing open the door ajar
window,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], a curtain of rain go away
ancient alley deep
Pipa sound broken
month in tears,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], and for whom
May night
by rain wet the end things out
lying in a pool of moonlight
back to the story,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych].
don't start
no so-called outcome
along the way,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], also be complete
a word,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], you can convince others
but can not convince yourself
pillow residual feelings
travel back to the past
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A knock on my door
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I'm excited
open the door when I saw a pile of books
I began to dance with joy
like a child
accidentally get a bunch of dimes
a set of Encyclopedia of Chinese culture four
a full Tang Song Yuan edition twenty-four
the weight of fifty pounds
money Sanbaisi pick up the whole
I know all my life I could not write these books
I know my poetry can not sell this number
I still write
some people say
take your poem income published
you spend three hundred yuan into
some people say
or not,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych].
see you out
Today my money,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych].
my bookcase filled the ancients
I think
one day I also stand in the bookcase
if covered with dust
or you buy me
homes are not willing to 40 yuan
I like a foreign woman
waiting for you a teaser
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I'm in rainy afternoon,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], continuous
looking for a man to find me,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], he won't come
life is slow down,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], slow tears
he doesn't come,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], all the time in captivity
none left to live,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], live to daydream
in the reverie,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], he will come
but I do not know when to
anxious heart he drops the
from his heart jumped on the tree,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], to the sea from the blood
I think,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], wait for an evening rain
he would from the rain to the midsummer,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych].
tilt time also follow his footsteps quiet moment
all that there is only one possible,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], he came
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I have a thousand times to forget you,both the moonlight is Xinghai I escape,I silently walk in the moonlight,see my long shadow.
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I know you will meet,
but how also cannot stop clinging to my eyes;
knowing that you will not,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych],
but how also cannot stop thousands and thousands of words,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych].
has seen many smile,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych],
your smile always in my dreams;
once read many touching stories,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych],
your story is always in my heart again,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych].
prior to departure may give you a galaxy,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych],
it is I leave your Flash memory,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych].
annoyed when look up,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych],
see the distant and bright,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych].
see the Milky way is how far away,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych],
you will return to our past;
see the galaxy is so bright,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych],
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