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I like that word: cultivation. It implies that you have to work at it, that you have to nourish it and encourage it to grow and produce a result that is beneficial to you and your business. In the classes I teach, locally in Southern California, I often get a student who states that they joined the “XYZ Networking Group” but it didn’t generate any business for them. So I ask them if they joined a committee or two, did they go to the mixers and the breakfasts and lunches and other events they offer, did they ask for the membership labels that are available to them so they can do a mailer…..and of course, they didn’t. It is not enough just to join a group,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], you must work at it. You must participate and be active in it so people can meet you and get to know you and remember you. People, as a rule, prefer to hire someone that is recommended rather than some unknown listed in directory. The more people who are out there recommending you the bigger the chances are that you will get more customers.
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After twenty years in business, I am happy to report that I never advertise for my business. New clients and new opportunities for projects and ventures come to me through referrals and getting to know new people. That might sound pretty cool to you, but did you know that I have spent countless hours networking to meet as many people as I possibly could? Mind you that this was especially true in the early years when I started my business. While I didn’t know much about the term “networking” I knew that I had to tell everyone I had ever met in my entire life about my new business. So I devised a plan to call 3 people each day. I didn’t always get to speak to them directly, but I left a message or if I was in their area, I parked the car, walked to their building and dropped in to say hello. They weren’t always in, so I left a card and a smile with the receptionist.
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Networking is utilizing all your resources. Resources can be found anywhere and everywhere. Everyone you meet in life has the potential to be a good resource for you. The most fascinating aspect of this is that you never know where your next lead comes from. People are connected through a web of friendships, sports,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], schools, religion, hobbies, business, neighborhoods, etc.
I was once consulting with a Janitorial Supply company. One day, an elderly man came in to buy supplies, he asked me what I was doing there and once I explained my purpose there, he asked for my card. A few days later I got a call from a woman who needed to organize her busy household of four young boys as well as start a home-based business. Naturally I hurried right over. After we agreed to my consulting with her, I asked how she heard about me. And she told me about the elderly man who polished her floors; he told her about my business and so she called. I was with her for eight years! And all it cost me was a friendly chat with a sweet older man.
We have all heard the expression: “it is not what you know, but who you know” that counts! Well, image what happens when we multiply that with “it is not who you know, but who they know” that counts! You would have a really big group of people in your database files. These people are all potential advisors to your business. They could provide information, news, updates, new customers, other contacts, etc. which can be invaluable to your business.
One of the byproducts of having a good network is that it saves you time and money. If you are looking for a good computer programmer or a bookkeeper, it is so much easier to ask a network contact that to put an ad in the paper, wait for responses, review them and determine who is right for you; sometimes there are no applicants and sometimes none of the applicants fit! What a waste of energy…far better to put the word out and let the right person come to you.
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Years ago when I joined the Chamber of Commerce, I soon realized that many people worked out of their home. So, I created the Home-Based Business Committee with these individuals. We had our own meetings and our own Business Showcase where we presented our businesses to the entire chamber membership and interested guests. We made them pay attention to us; we wanted their business and we were willing to work for it.
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The key to any endeavor is to have an organized approach, so it is important to create a campaign for your networking efforts. Some key points are listed here:
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There a million networking groups out there. You can’t possibly be a member in all of them; no one can. Do some research and learn about the ones that appeal to you and are right for your business. Keep within the parameters of your business. My initial business was local. There was no point in building relationships with people who worked in another state or in another city for that matter; but, as my business grew and I was able to provide products and services for people across the nation, so did my networking. It is true though,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], that even if you only have local clientele, a website gives you credibility and marketing ability…so proceed as you need to as you grow your business.
You can find local networking groups online of course, but also check the local papers. Typically they have a Business Section. In this section, there should be a Calendar or an Agenda which will list all the Networking events in your area. They will give you name of group, location of meeting, time,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], cost and topic for the evening. Pick the one (s) that seems right and go! And don’t forget your business cards!
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This is true with some local business networking groups as well. Some are stronger than others – meaning that they have a bigger membership base and offer more community events to encourage more business exchange. Some are for women only or men only…which is okay if your product or service caters to one or the other. But, what if it is a product or service that I woman uses but a man can buy for her? Don’t limit yourself. Look for the networking groups that provide the right outlet for your product or service with people who have a genuine interest it.
3. Pace Yourself
Okay, make a list of which groups you are going to be a member of. This should be a balance between Internet Sites and Local Networking Groups, such as the Chamber of Commerce. Make sure you have included the cost of memberships and the schedule of meetings and events. You don’t want to be a member of two groups that both meet on the 1st Tuesday of the month.
If you find yourself making excuses not to go to these events, you are doing too much. It is better to pick 1 or 2 at the most and work them effectively than joining 8 groups and driving yourself crazy. It could also be cost prohibitive to join and attend all the groups in your town. So be smart…control your time, effort and money by selecting the best for you and then create your own rhythm for meetings, events and following up with potential leads. Networking has to be a positive experience. If it annoys you to get yourself motivated to go, don’t bother. Others will pick up on your attitude and this will do more harm than good. Go at another time when you are upbeat and open to meeting people.
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You are going to meet lots of people. But let’s face it you are not going to hit it off with everyone. Sometimes you will realize this up front and sometimes it will take you a while to figure it out. It never ceases to amaze me when I spend a lot of time with someone, talking, laughing, sharing information, exchanging business cards, etc. And then, when I call them,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], they don’t return my call! Even after all these years, I get disheartened. I wonder what when wrong; I replay the conversation and think that I could have done something differently. Until I realize that it just wasn’t meant to be and move on. The emphasis is on: moving on. You and I don’t want to be in business with people like this anyway!
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There is a time for networking and a time to do business. You can’t spend all your precious time hunting for customers; you’ve got to pay attention to the customers you have,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych]. I got so into networking in my early business days. Going to meetings and events and then following up took its toll. I couldn’t keep up with the demands of my existing customers. They noticed the difference and said so. This was a rude awaking but awake I did and got back to taking care of business,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych].
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How do we shed our self-doubt and move in the direction of creating confidence? How do we find our loving, centered-self in the midst of troubles and conflict? Here are some conclusions that I've gleaned about this process:
After discussing the creation of clear boundaries with Mark, he responded with,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], "I'm confused." This reaction typifies those with self-doubt who have troubles with sorting and sifting. They don't trust their instincts to generate an empowering decision. Rather,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], self-doubters cling to their cocoon in an attempt to avoid the inevitability of appropriate action.
Mark’s grown children disapproved of a new, intimate relationship that was very important to him. Mark’s narrative was one of being intricately entwined with his children and ex-wife in a codependent relationship. In the midst of the mess, his children had become caretakers to their parents. In this way, they could soothe the emotional pain that all of them felt over the divorce. Neither Mark nor his ex-wife had processed their anger over parting ways and had leaned on their children as a means of coping.
• Set clearly defined boundaries with others,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych].
• It is not "essential" to be loved and valued by all the significant people in your life.
• Learn to differentiate who you are from others. You can ask,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], "How to I feel? What do I feel? What is my perspective on things? What are my reactions to these events?"
• Recognize that pleasing others is a preference or choice,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], not an obligation.
• Prepare for a counter-reaction when you stick up for yourself. If others do not like what you express, learn to hold our ground.
• Never justify your perspective and refrain from over-explaining beliefs.
• Recognize that it is the fear of losing that binds us. People may disapprove of our truth, but generally will not abandon us.
• Individuate. In your search for adulthood, find out who you are a part from all the significant people in your life, including your parents.
• Practice choosing. Even if you make a wrong decision,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], you will feel empowered and primed to make a better one.
• Hurt and disappointment is inevitable. That being said,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], you might as well take the risk of loving - it feels better.
For the self-doubter, there is no centered-self. Mark would continue to internalize everyone's feelings but his own. He was too frightened to take responsibility for what he believed to be true, instead deferring to the needs and approval from others. Mark was too terrified to do the very thing that would have fostered freedom - that is,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], speak the truth about what he needed, whether his children liked it or not. It is the fear of rejection and abandonment that binds us from the liberation to love. Most people have not learned this truth, and consequently end up in a heap filled with great suffering, conflict, aloneness and self-blame. They miss out on life's precious pleasures because they fail to take the risk of loving seriously.
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Indeed, Mark was confused. He felt caught, trapped in the middle of the maelstrom surrounding him. In sensory overload, he retreated inside looking for a place of solace. Instead, he began grappling with self-pity as a sense of victimization caused him to unravel within.
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That's why the contained and entertained products are so useful. In many cases they are sanity savers and privacy protectors. (Have you ever tried to use a bathroom with an infant in your arms?) While some of these products may not be completely necessary in every household, how nice it is to have a choice and know that if one doesn't work well for your situation, there are literally hundreds of alternatives. Simplicity is a beautiful goal and I wholeheartedly agree,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], I just suggest that it can apply to the expectations as well as the baby gear we all collect.
Relax a little, embrace what works for you and helps you not only get through, but actually enjoy the experience of the early, crazy days of parenthood. Use what works, let go of what doesn't, even if that means some the perfection expectations we impose on ourselves. Adjust to the new normal and remember that life with a baby is a little bit like the weather in New England; it's always changing.
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Maybe contained and entertained applies to more than just baby equipment, maybe it applies to our aspirations to be perfect parents as well. I believe that perfection is an illusion, so it might be best to take that over-wrought superhero parent illusion and get it contained and entertained so it will stay out of our way and let us get back to the business of living in reality. It might be the kindest thing we can do to take care of our children and ourselves.
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